If I was under the suspicion that one of my friends was having an eating disorder. I would first and foremost approach the situation in a non judgmental but serious manner since some eating disorders are perilous and often lead to death. I would stay calm and be direct in my inquisition. I could state that I have noticed that their eating habits were out of line and would comment on the weight loss. I would also be honest in why I think they were have an eating disorder by remarking on any apparent weight loss or missed meals.
I would also express concern and state the reasons why I think they have the disorder. I would inform the person of the dangers associated with eating disorders and the harm it causes to the body. I would also target the psychological mindset of the individual; we live in a society that embraces “thinness” so this would be challenging. However, providing information on what “real” beauty is would probably be one aspect I would approach first. I would also try to make my friend realize that having a strong self esteem would greatly help in acknowledging her strong points, realizing that being thin has nothing to do with success and give examples of women role models that are healthy.
If my friend denies of having an eating disorder, I would express concern and emphasis the changes I have noticed. I would request my friend to get help and provide contacts of mental health workers or physicians that could offer help. I would offer my help in helping her seek medical help and more than anything I would do what good friends do for each other, be there for her, walk with her, every single step until she is completely healed.
2 comments:
The best help you can provide to a friend who has eating disorder is the medical help. I agree with you that once you advice them to seek professional help you will work step to step with them make sure they complete the program. Also you have mentioned that you will try not to be judgemental, I think this will help your friend to understand that you do care for her that is why you are concerned with her eating habits.
I believe that if you have a friend that has an eating disorder, it is part of your friendly duty to try your best to help them. Either find someone to talk to them or do it yourself, but either way the person needs help before they kill themselves.
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